Being raised in the church isn't the same thing as being raised in Christ. To me the self righteous white folks are better than the ethically saved , proud , seat warming black folks . At least they know who they are and why they stand for what they stand for. We actually don't need a new generation of self-righteous or ethically saved people. When we sit and judge those who are not Christians, we should remember that our perspective of life is formed from what we are told continuously, we grow up calling a chair a chair because we were continuously taught that item is a chair. Our faith is not in our words but in our actions (real actions not the fake attention seeking ones ).Treat everyone with non-self seeking love because we never know the battles they fight daily or the battles they are losing. To me the only rule that governs everything I do is love, am not a bible bashing Christian but I understand that much about Christ. A guy once said to me , if someone walks into a church hoping to meet God and meets you instead , would they feel like they have met Christ ? or if they wake up and hope to find God but met you instead, would they feel like they have touched Christ ?